Independence Day: Do you want more or less?

Coleman wouldn't go down tonight. Which is saying a lot, since he has never (I mean it) had a problem going into his crib awake and falling asleep.

Joel and I are perplexed. I even nursed him. He hasn't nursed at night in months. Joel just came out of his room and said "He's still awake!" He just talked and talked until about 9:30, at which point he was silent; finally asleep. Approaching one, he is learning about decisions, choices, and downright rebellion.

He screamed bloody murder at Aidan the other day for switching out a toy, which in weeks past would have meant a kind-hearted murmur of delight. This happens as we age; wanting more and more independence in our decision making. And then somewhere around 30 we realize it is actually nice to have someone make the decisions, the choices once in a while. In fact, now I really prefer it.